The social disadvantages of homeschooling are often put forward as the main reason for choosing not to homeschool, so it's wonderful to hear from 4,000 homeschool families you don't need to worry.
People seem to imagine that you're going to lock your child away, sit them down in front of a pile of books all day and throw the key out of the window.
What about friends?
That's usually the first question people ask if you tell them you're homeschooling.
I'm hoping that a quick look at the research results below proving how socially adept homeschool children are will give you something to slip into the conversation!
Let's start by turning the question around.
What exactly are the social benefits of going to school?
That's why bringing together the experience of homeschooling families in the Courageous Homeschooling Handbook is so helpful and reassuring.
It's hearing from homeschool moms like Julyan that puts things back in perspective.
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So what's the truth?
All the homeschooling
parents I've met (and I mean all) are only too pleased to meet
up, precisely because they want their child to make friends with yours.
If other people knew how much effort all the homeschool parents I know put in to ensure their child doesn't face any social disadvantages because of homeschooling they'd be amazed.
In fact, knowing how many homeschooling children have plenty of friends I think outsiders might be more entitled to ask:
"So you mean your child is going to spend all day playing?"
(Don't take offense, but I sometimes think that's more important to them than what they think of me!).
Obviously, if you decide to start, you'll probably worry about the potential social disadvantages of homeschooling.
The fact is you'll almost certainly find some sort of homeschool group meeting near you where the children can play and the adults can talk.
It'll depend on where you live, of course, but usually some of the parents get together to organize educational trips and visits (at group discount rates, which helps when it comes to saving money with homeschooling.)
On top of that, there are loads of other opportunities to make sure your child doesn't face any of the potential social disadvantages of homeschooling.
Groups, clubs, societies, lessons, courses, adventure holidays – your only limit is your child's interests and possibly your wallet!
So, even if your child doesn't live near other homeschool families, there's no reason for there to be any social disadvantages to homeschooling.
There's plenty of opportunities for your child to learn with other children, make friends, socialize.
And let's not forget the other perspective: what sort of socialization would your child get if they went to school?
John Taylor Gatto spoke about the disadvantages of the public education system when he was presented with the New York City Teacher of the Year Award in 1990:
Maybe those who worry about the possible social disadvantages of homeschooling would be better occupied having a radical re-think about the skills children practice at school.
"Socialization? Exactly WHAT socialization?" was the way one Mom responded when she saw the results of a school day on her daughter.
So the supposed social disadvantages of homeschooling can actually provide a wonderful cover for a game which parents seem to play: a supposition that all children who go to school have loads of friends.
Of course, on reflection, many parents acknowledge that this isn't true, but then you hit the double whammy.
But does it? Peer pressure is an inescapable part of school life.
At its worst, bullying results. How does being bullied help you become a better adult?
Just look at my page on school bullying and the real-life experience of parents whose children have suffered.
Not everyone at school gets bullied. But they'll all struggle with whose top in the popularity stakes and having to keep in with their mates.
The price they pay varies.
But school makes it hard to be different and ignores many of the advantages homeschooling brings.
Try something as innocent as being an 11 year-old birdwatcher and see what happens.
My husband Rob was that boy, and he still remembers it.
There is definitely a case to be answered.
Rather than looking at the disadvantages of homeschooling, you could easily pen many papers about the social disadvantages of school and ask yourself:
Is school really the best way to learn the socialization skills you need as an adult?
There are, in fact, lots of advantages to homeschooling socialization as you'll see.
My experience is that the social disadvantages of homeschooling are vastly over-exaggerated and can be overcome, though I know that it does take a little work sometimes.
Don't forget you can find lots more tips, advice and reassurance that home education is a far more healthy way to learn social skills in the Courageous Homeschooling Handbook here.
You can read more about peer pressure and why I hate the idea that the success of your homeschool is measured by the number of friends at your child's Birthday party here.